Failure doesn’t reveal weakness—it reveals patterns. In this episode, we explore how the Enneagram helps us build awareness in moments of pressure, so failure becomes information instead of identity. Because leadership doesn’t begin with fixing what went wrong—it begins with understanding what’s happening within us.

There are seasons that grow you, and there are seasons that wake you up.
This was the year that cracked me open—not to break me, but to return me to myself.

Through divorce, grief, and the quiet wisdom of my own nervous system, I began to see the truth I had been avoiding. What felt like loss slowly revealed itself as delivery. What felt like an ending became an awakening.

This three-part reflection is not about what I lost—it’s about who I found on the other side of survival. The woman who no longer confuses endurance with love. The woman who no longer abandons herself to keep the peace. The woman who is still becoming—fully, boldly, and without apology.